Retronaut has a nice collection of iconic photographs and the photographers who took them...

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The set is a nice example of "Decisive Moment" images - the photos were not staged, and were fleeting instances; a moment sooner or later and the image wouldn't exist.

That concept seems to be very misunderstood, if you can judge by the Flickr Groups where people submit photos that they think are their "Decisive Moment" photos.

Of course, it's very easy to see the Decisive Moment in photos of famous events in history, because we know exactly how fleeting some of those moments were and how a combination of luck and smarts caused the photographer to click the shutter at exactly the right moment.

Photos where the scene and subject are unknown to us are harder, but Cartier-Bresson was a master of those; there's always something in the photo that tells us that the picture wasn't staged; for example, the iconic Bresson photo of the man jumping the puddle where he's captured mid-jump makes it obvious that this was a spur-of-the-moment, "click or you'll miss it" shot.

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The Daily Mail has a nice collection of "Decisive Moment" photos (most if not all fit that category) taken by a young Stanley Kubrick when he was a photographer for Look magazine in the 40s and 50s. Most of those subject are unknown, but you can tell by the shot that it captures a singular moment of mood or action that existed and was gone in an instant.

Stanley Kubrick's photography - example of a decisive moment

Me, on the question of how sexual orientation is decided:

This comes down to the argument of "is it your attractions that decide your sexual orientation, or your behaviors?" And within the gay community, there is fierce argument over that question. Which is why I always go back to the Kinsey scale, which is based on attraction, rather than behavior, when defining my sexual orientation, because it's a lot more clear what *I* mean when I say it.

Theoretically, it could be determined either way. From a practical standpoint, talking about a topic when different people have different definitions for the same terminology is problematic, to say the least, when real life issues are at stake.

It's not quite the end of January, but I thought I'd check in a bit early on my year's goals because next weekend promises to be chaotic both "internally" (meaning: with my own writing plans) and "externally" (meaning: with the Super Bowl going on in the city and whatnot). So how am I doing?

1) Writing: January - I resolve to...schedule a regular writing time.

Crappy! I tried to schedule lunch time to write, but there's too much going on at work to allow for it. I can't manage to get out of a warm bed to sit in front of a cold computer in the mornings, and post-work has been filled with other rowing, knitting, reading and other household chores. I need to get it together.

My February plans should help get this one solidified: I'm going to write 25,000 words in February; approximately 1,000 words a day, on my novel to get it truly complete. That's a pretty sedate pace compared to NaNoWriMo's 1,667 words-per-day requirement, but it will get my novel really finished.

2) Rowing:

Eh. The first few weeks I did well and even went in to erg on the weekend outside of class, but I took last week off because I was sick, so I'm behind the curve here too. Gotta catch up this week.

3) Produce more than I consume:

Pretty damned good. I've been knitting up a storm, finishing a number of projects I had started and getting others moved along nicely. I edited lots of my photos, too. I do need to can some of the junk reading and redirect my attention to more important stuff, and I have watched a lot of TV, but I've cut way back on spending on clothes and entertaining items. We've been pretty good about eating at home instead of going out, limiting the restaurant visits to other people's birthdays and such, for the most part. We could do better, but we haven't been terrible, either.

4) General home organizing stuff

Pretty damned good. I have another "off the books" goal of building more structure and scheduling into some of our household organization/cleaning, and I'm really happy at how I've been able to keep up with some of those routine tasks.

Shamelessly cribbed from Classic Short Stories and re-organized by word count from shortest to longest for comparison purposes. We're discussing short stories with the Indy NaNoWriMo group this afternoon, and I thought it might help to have a word count chart similar to the one I did for Famous Novels back in November.

Of the 161 stories listed, 3081 is the mean word count (number in the middle) and 4052 is the average word count. Duotrope (a free writers' resource listing over 3950 current fiction and poetry publications) caps their search for short story publishers at 7,500 words, which means most publishers are looking for stories of less than that length.

Words: 710 - Virginia Woolf - A Haunted House
Words: 762 - Fielding Dawson - The Vertical Fields
Words: 810 - Mark Twain - A Telephonic Conversation
Words: 994 - Gabriel Garcia Marquez - One of These Days
Words: 1274 - Saki (H H Munro) - The Open Window
Words: 1354 - Guy de Maupassant - The Kiss
Words: 1377 - Saki (H H Munro) - Mrs Packletide's Tiger
Words: 1411 - Guy de Maupassant - A Dead Woman's Secret
Words: 1429 - Guy de Maupassant - Indiscretion
Words: 1464 - Guy de Maupassant - Moonlight
Words: 1472 - Guy de Maupassant - Coco
Words: 1503 - Anton Pavlovich Checkhov - A Slander
Words: 1520 - Saki (H H Munro) - The Mouse
Words: 1552 - Guy de Maupassant - Yvette
Words: 1564 - William Carlos Williams - The Use of Force
Words: 1618 - Liam O'Flaherty - The Sniper
Words: 1624 - Guy de Maupassant - Farewell
Words: 1657 - Guy de Maupassant - Friend Patience
Words: 1691 - Guy de Maupassant - The Drunkard
Words: 1720 - Guy de Maupassant - The Christening
Words: 1764 - Guy de Maupassant - A Vendetta
Words: 1797 - Mark Twain - Luck
Words: 1830 - Saki (H H Munro) - Sredni Vashtar
Words: 1831 - Ambrose Bierce - The Boarded Window
Words: 1857 - Guy de Maupassant - Bellflower
Words: 1862 - Guy de Maupassant - In the Wood
Words: 1870 - Guy de Maupassant - The Dowry
Words: 1896 - Guy de Maupassant - The Unknown
Words: 1914 - Guy de Maupassant - A Family
Words: 1921 - Guy de Maupassant - Misti--Recollections of a Bachelor
Words: 1944 - Guy de Maupassant - Confessing
Words: 1978 - Anton Pavlovich Checkhov - The Lottery Ticket
Words: 2023 - Guy de Maupassant - A Humble Drama
Words: 2071 - Guy de Maupassant - Two Little Soldiers
Words: 2073 - E B White - The Door
Words: 2083 - Guy de Maupassant - Humiliation
Words: 2093 - Edgar Allan Poe - The Tell-Tale Heart
Words: 2098 - Rudyard Kipling - How the Leopard Got His Spots
Words: 2098 - Guy de Maupassant - The Hand
Words: 2106 - Guy de Maupassant - Old Mongilet
Words: 2109 - Saki (H H Munro) - The Storyteller (Saki)
Words: 2112 - Patrick Waddington - The Street That Got Mislaid
Words: 2149 - Mark Twain - A Burlesque Biography
Words: 2163 - O Henry - The Gift of the Magi
Words: 2208 - Guy de Maupassant - The Hairpin
Words: 2256 - O Henry - The Whirligig of Life
Words: 2284 - Guy de Maupassant - Denis
Words: 2350 - Mark Twain - Italian without a Master
Words: 2383 - Edgar Allan Poe - The Masque of the Red Death
Words: 2384 - Herman Melville - The Fiddler
Words: 2385 - Anton Pavlovich Checkhov - A Day in the Country
Words: 2385 - Guy de Maupassant - Waiter
Words: 2399 - James Joyce - Araby
Words: 2414 - O Henry - The Princess and the Puma
Words: 2421 - Dorothy Parker - A Telephone Call
Words: 2434 - Guy de Maupassant - Madame Parisse
Words: 2457 - Edgar Allan Poe - The Imp of the Perverse
Words: 2479 - Guy de Maupassant - Timbuctoo
Words: 2495 - Edgar Allan Poe - The Cask of Amontillado
Words: 2500 - O Henry - The Last Leaf
Words: 2530 - Guy de Maupassant - The Piece of String
Words: 2543 - Ambrose Bierce - A Horseman in the Sky
Words: 2544 - Rudyard Kipling - The Elephant's Child
Words: 2555 - O Henry - The Coming-Out of Maggie
Words: 2623 - Mark Twain - Italian with Grammar
Words: 2631 - Mark Twain - The Celebrated Jumping Frog of Calaveras County
Words: 2637 - Guy de Maupassant - Theodule Sabot's Confession
Words: 2649 - James Joyce - Clay
Words: 2652 - Guy de Maupassant - The Marquis de Fumerol
Words: 2720 - Herman Melville - The Lightning-Rod Man
Words: 2731 - Guy de Maupassant - The Devil
Words: 2747 - Frank Stockton - The Lady or the Tiger?
Words: 2768 - Guy de Maupassant - Julie Romain
Words: 2797 - Gabriel Garcia Marquez - Eyes of a Blue Dog
Words: 2811 - Edgar Allan Poe - Von Kempelen and His Discovery
Words: 2871 - Anton Pavlovich Checkhov - The Bet
Words: 2901 - Evan Hunter - The Last Spin
Words: 2989 - Guy de Maupassant - The Donkey
Words: 3016 - Dylan Thomas - A Child's Christmas in Wales
Words: 3056 - Guy de Maupassant - Toine
Words: 3081 - Guy de Maupassant - The Father
Words: 3091 - Guy de Maupassant - The Necklace
Words: 3159 - Guy de Maupassant - A Coward
Words: 3208 - Nathaniel Hawthorne - The Wedding-Knell
Words: 3211 - Irwin Shaw - The Girls in Their Summer Dresses
Words: 3283 - George Orwell - Shooting an Elephant
Words: 3343 - Nathaniel Hawthorne - The Ambitious Guest
Words: 3400 - Graham Greene - The End of the Party
Words: 3448 - Ambrose Bierce - Beyond the Wall
Words: 3620 - Edgar Allan Poe - The Facts in the Case of M Valdemar
Words: 3624 - Bret Harte - Tennessee's Partner
Words: 3642 - Guy de Maupassant - An Affair of State
Words: 3690 - Paul Bowles - In the Red Room
Words: 3772 - Charles Dickens - The Baron of Grogzwig
Words: 3773 - Shirley Jackson - The Lottery
Words: 3801 - George Saunders - The Falls
Words: 3804 - Ambrose Bierce - An Occurrence at Owl Creek Bridge
Words: 3878 - Edgar Allan Poe - 7 Mesmeric Revelation
Words: 3899 - Roald Dahl - Lamb to the Slaughter
Words: 3998 - Edgar Allan Poe - The Black Cat
Words: 4058 - Guy de Maupassant - The Wreck
Words: 4134 - W W Jacobs - The Monkey's Paw
Words: 4190 - Bret Harte - The Luck of Roaring Camp
Words: 4279 - Guy de Maupassant - That Pig of a Morin
Words: 4309 - Gabriel Garcia Marquez - Eva Is Inside Her Cat
Words: 4356 - Charles Dickens - The Poor Relation's Story
Words: 4372 - O Henry - The Ransom of Red Chief
Words: 4490 - Guy de Maupassant - A Vagabond
Words: 4492 - James O'Keefe - Death Makes a Comeback
Words: 4618 - Guy de Maupassant - Mademoiselle Fifi
Words: 4625 - Roald Dahl - Man From the South
Words: 4722 - Katherine Mansfield - The Stranger
Words: 5028 - Anton Pavlovich Checkhov - The Darling
Words: 5046 - Ring Lardner - Haircut
Words: 5072 - Roald Dahl - Beware of the Dog
Words: 5114 - Guy de Maupassant - The Inn
Words: 5215 - James Joyce - A Little Cloud
Words: 5231 - Stuart Cloete - The Soldier's Peaches
Words: 5285 - Nathaniel Hawthorne - The Minister's Black Veil
Words: 5387 - Nathaniel Hawthorne - Young Goodman Brown
Words: 5505 - George Orwell - Politics and the English Language
Words: 5547 - Jesse Stuart - Split Cherry Tree
Words: 5557 - Katherine Mansfield - The Garden Party
Words: 5565 - Honore de Balzac - A Passion in the Desert
Words: 5637 - Edgar Allan Poe - The Premature Burial
Words: 5672 - O Henry - A Blackjack Bargainer
Words: 5703 - Nathaniel Hawthorne - The Great Carbuncle
Words: 5704 - Bret Harte - How Santa Claus Came to Simpson's Bar
Words: 5707 - Edgar Allan Poe - The Thousand-And-Second Tale of Scheherazade
Words: 5751 - Guy de Maupassant - Mademoiselle Pearl
Words: 5896 - Rudyard Kipling - Rikki-Tikki-Tavi from The Jungle Book
Words: 5952 - Tobias Wolff - Hunters in the Snow
Words: 6015 - D H Lawrence - The Rocking-Horse Winner
Words: 6078 - Frank Stockton - The Griffin and the Minor Canon
Words: 6155 - Edgar Allan Poe - The Pit and the Pendulum
Words: 6366 - Ambrose Flack - The Strangers That Came to Town
Words: 6758 - Ring Lardner - The Golden Honeymoon
Words: 6776 - Guy de Maupassant - Useless Beauty
Words: 6815 - Robert Louis Stevenson - Markheim
Words: 6826 - Nathaniel Hawthorne - Ethan Brand
Words: 6934 - Washington Irving - Rip Van Winkle (A Posthumous Writing of Diedrich Knickerbocker)
Words: 7053 - H G Wells - The Door in the Wall
Words: 7120 - Henry Van Dyke - The First Christmas Tree
Words: 7176 - Jack London - To Build a Fire
Words: 7178 - Mark Twain - Was it Heaven? Or Hell?
Words: 7181 - Edgar Allan Poe - A Descent Into the Maelstrom
Words: 7226 - Edgar Allan Poe - The Fall of the House of Usher
Words: 7396 - Edgar Allan Poe - The Purloined Letter
Words: 7419 - Thomas Bailey Aldrich - Marjorie Daw
Words: 7446 - Richard Harding Davis - The Consul
Words: 7805 - Jack London - A Piece of Steak
Words: 7876 - Guy de Maupassant - Miss Harriet
Words: 8080 - Mark Twain - The Private History of a Campaign That Failed
Words: 8426 - Richard Connell - The Most Dangerous Game
Words: 8881 - Carl Stephenson - Leiningen versus the Ants
Words: 8970 - Willa Cather - Paul's Case
Words: 9601 - Thomas Nelson Page - The Burial of the Guns
Words: 10669 - Edith Wharton - Souls Belated
Words: 11870 - Edith Wharton - Afterward
Words: 12261 - Nathaniel Hawthorne - Rappaccini's Daughter
Words: 33015 - H G Wells - The Time Machine

This is really cool - aside from being an awesome song, watching 5 people play the same guitar all at once is pretty unbelievable.

A bit past the first of the year, but I had to spend some time working out what I want to do, and that took some time. This year I have three resolutions:

1) Follow the 12 month writing resolutions plan that I wrote about previously.

2) Keep up with rowing in the new year. I don't anticipate that being a problem, given that I'm taking a class and there's stuff I have to learn, so I can't really opt out. And also I LOVE rowing. The endorphin high after practice is amazing.

3) And produce more than I consume - a goal I looked at in April of last year. I considered trying at least 1 day and preferably 2 days to produced more than I consumed. I promptly forgot that I made the goal, but I didn't do to badly at it in November, at least. I do enjoy television, but I need to kick some shows off the roster. And for the past year, I knit while I watch TV, so I'm at least keeping the producing and consuming neck and neck there.

I always have the impulse to attempt New Year's Resolutions, even though I often give them up part way into the year. And I've been plenty pragmatic about it in the past; attempting to take on funny goals, or to consider them as aspirations and things to strive for.

I'm going to do the same this year - I'm not going to beat myself up or give up in disgust if I don't accomplish each task every day; this is about building new habits, and that takes trial and error, so I need to fail and retry to succeed. So if I miss a day, I'll start over and try to get to a place where I'm doing the new thing *most* of the time.

I put this playlist together several years back when I had a big 80s party, but after that I managed to lose it, except that I had a copy on CD, thankfully. So here are my favorite 80s tunes, mostly in order from "pretty cheesy" to "really good."

  1. Love's Been A Little Bit Hard On Me / Juice Newton / 3:21
  2. Johnny Are You Queer? / Josie Cotton / 2:53
  3. Breakaway / Tracy Ullman / 2:43
  4. Tired of Toein' The Line / Rocky Burnette / 3:52
  5. You're My Favorite Waste of Time / Owen Paul / 3:07
  6. What I Like About You / The Romantics / 3:05
  7. I'll Be (500 Miles) / The Proclaimers / 3:46
  8. Like A Prayer / Madonna / 5:58
  9. Video Killed The Radio Star / BuGgles / 3:21
  10. One Night in Bangkok / Murray Head & Anders Glenmark / 4:15
  11. Dancing With Myself / Billy Idol / 4:57
  12. Goody Two Shoes / Adam Ant / 3:34
  13. You Have Placed A Chill In My Heart / Eurythmics / 3:56
  14. Veronica / Elvis Costello / 3:17
  15. I Melt With You / Modern English / 3:58
  16. Bullet The Blue Sky / U2 / 4:38
  17. Orange Crush / R.E.M. / 4:01
  18. Punk Rock Girl / The Dead Milkmen / 2:44
  19. Knock On Wood / Amii Stewart / 3:47
  20. I Beg Your Pardon / Kon Kan / 4:02
  21. Erotic City / Prince / 3:59
  22. A Little Respect / Erasure / 3:31
  23. Just Can't Get Enough / Depeche Mode / 3:39
  24. It's A Sin / Pet Shop Boys / 5:02
  25. Blue Monday / New Order / 7:32
  26. Kids In America / Kim Wilde / 3:33
  27. Don't Leave Me This Way / The Communards / 4:37
  28. Under The Milky Way / The Church / 5:02
  29. Pictures of You / The Cure / 4:51
  30. Should I Stay or Should I Go / The Clash / 3:08
  31. Blood and Roses / The Smithereens / 3:40
  32. Unsatisfied / The Replacements / 4:05
  33. Heaven Knows I'm Miserable Now / The Smiths / 3:37
  34. Under The Killing Moon / Echo & The Bunnymen / 5:50
  35. The Beat(en) Generation / The The / 3:09
  36. Stigmata / Ministry / 5:48
  37. Institutionalized / Suicidal Tendencies / 3:32
  38. Love Is a Stranger / Eurythmics / 3:40
  39. Love Will Tear Us Apart / Joy Division / 3:24
  40. Bring Me Edelweiss / Edelweiss / 3:42

Business Model Toolbox

The Business Model Toolbox combines the speed of a napkin sketch with the smarts of a spreadsheet. It enables you to map, test, and iterate your business ideas - fast.

With the Business Model Toolbox you will be able to:


  • - Sketch your business model using the practical methodology from the best-selling book, Business Model Generation.

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Why I need may this: I can see this being useful for getting my writing distributed when I get my novel finished. I have a kind of elaborate plan for this including a marketing website that I need to build, with downloadable ebooks that I sell myself from the site as well as purchasing from amazon and barnes and noble.

A personal database app - ReadWrite reviews 4 of them for the iPad.

Why I need may this: I keep running into a frustration with tracking things accurately - I've been wanting a way to track my word counts in writing, but also some other things based on date that simply entering things in a calendar doesn't help with. A calendar lets me enter information, but doesn't sum it up for me in a query - "How many times this year have I put flea medication on the dog?" is one of those queries I'd like to have. (also, "how many times have I cleaned out the fish tank?" and "how many times have I visited the library?" "How many times over the last 5 years have I gotten an oil change" are other examples.) I'm wishing there were a journaling/calendar app that would do these things, but I haven't found one, and think I may need to just build a database that does something like this, although the very idea makes me really weary, frankly.

Whenever you confront, or see confronted, sexism on the internet, there is almost always a chorus of people doing a couple of things in response: 1) excusing the behavior of the people who are sexist, or 2) trying to defend the community in which the sexism is taking place by arguments such as "not all XX people are sexist; most of us are great people except for these few idiots." or 3) saying things like "if you participate anonymously, you don't have to deal with the sexism, so hide your identity and you'll get to participate fully."

Kate Harding blogs about a specific incident that fits this pattern - a 15 year-old girl who considers herself an atheist and wants to be part of a discussion on atheism posts on reddit in an atheism community about the book her mother got her for Christmas - and the girl gets an enormous number of rape threats and sexist, predatory comments from men who participate in that in the atheist community.

Skeptic blogger Rebecca Watson caught on to what was happened to the young woman on Reddit and wrote about it on her site. Subsequently, the comments on her post were filled with people excusing the behavior of the reddit folks as satire, people suggesting the girl should only post anonymously so she wouldn't be subject to abusive comments, and people explaining that this is just the way the world works and we can't change it.

Kate's response on her site to the excuses in the comments on Rebecca's blog is phenomenal, and worth saving for the succinct and appropriate answers to a number of common troll-isms, man-splaining and excusing behavior that serves to shelter misogynist abuse online.

I don't want to seize a massive block-quote of her words because it wouldn't be fair use, and her writing is also almost too succinct to paraphrase well, so please just go and read her post, and note that I love everything after this paragraph:

"I love that "you are awful, too" bit so much, I'd like to expand on it."

Wordplay has a nice list of 12 writing resolutions - 1 for each month of the year. Pretty good stuff, and I plan to adopt them.

In January, I resolve to...schedule a regular writing time.

In February, I resolve to... create a roadmap to publication.

In March, I resolve to... stop procrastinating.

In April, I resolve to... edit an old story.

In May, I resolve to... send my story out for critique.

In June, I resolve to... enforce my writing time.

In July, I resolve to... streamline my writing process.

In August, I resolve to... fact check my story.

In September, I resolve to... do one thing to build my author's platform.

In October, I resolve to... interview my characters.

In November, I resolve to... get organized.

In December, I resolve to... exterminate clichés.

Bonus: Year-Long Resolution:
This year, I resolve to read at least one book on the craft every month.

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